Archive for the 'Life' Category

Crisis Precedes Change

Tuesday, July 7th, 2009

Until the pain became unbearable, I was not willing to change.  Pain brings change.  Crisis precedes progress.  And change exposes our weaknesses.  No wonder so many of us avoid change at any cost.
— Mary Hunt, The Best of the Cheapskate Monthly



You Get It, Or You Don’t

Monday, May 25th, 2009

You either get it, or you don’t. In almost every situation, there are people who get it, and there are people who don’t — and it’s really easy to tell them apart. Those who get it are enjoying the fruits of their knowledge. Those who don’t spend a lot of time looking puzzled, frustrated, and [...]



Some People Prosper

Tuesday, April 28th, 2009

Some people prosper when times are challenging, and some people never do, even in good times.  Some people endure serious personal financial storms and come out stronger than ever before; others get swept away.  The difference is this:  Those who do well in both good times and bad times manage their money from a position [...]



The Myth of More

Sunday, March 8th, 2009

We build our working lives on this myth of more.  Our expectation is to make more money as the years go on.  We will get more responsibility and more perks as we move up in our field.  Eventually, we hope, we will have more possessions, more prestige and more respect from our community.  We become [...]



Dealing With Challenges

Tuesday, December 23rd, 2008

One of the biggest challenges in anyone’s life is knowing how to interpret “failures.”  How we deal with life’s “defeats” and what we determine is the cause will shape our destinies.  We need to remember that how we deal with adversity and challenges will shape our lives more than almost anything else.
— Anthony Robbins, Awaken [...]



Your Biggest Problem

Monday, September 8th, 2008

The fact that you don’t have any money is a result of all your other problems.  You have thinking problems.  Attitude problems.  Self-esteem problems.  You are lazy.  You lack discipline.  You lack goals.  Your priorities are out of whack.
 
Your biggest problem is not in your wallet or your bank account.  Your biggest problem is between [...]



Get a Plan

Monday, September 1st, 2008

None of the people I’ve helped on my television show has had a written-down plan.  Not even a 3×5 card with one sentence on it.  Not a Post-It note. Nothing.
 
And they wonder why their lives are such disasters.  Isn’t it obvious?  They don’t have a plan for their life to be anything other than a [...]



Comfortable

Tuesday, May 20th, 2008

Comfortable means you don’t feel bad but you don’t feel all that great, either.  Most people are comfortable.  That’s the problem.  Comfortable people don’t feel bad enough to change but don’t feel good enough to really be able to enjoy their lives.  Either way, their future is doomed.
 
People never make changes when they are comfortable.  [...]



Delaying Gratification

Wednesday, April 30th, 2008

Many people have not learned to delay gratification and want in their twenties for what took their parents 40 years to earn and acquire.  Many fall into the trap of focusing on what they want now instead of what matters most long term.  …One of the biggest mistakes we make in life is that we [...]



Desirable Fruit

Monday, April 21st, 2008

Every choice carries a consequence.  For better or worse, each choice is the unavoidable consequence of its predecessor.  There are not exceptions.  If you can accept that a bad choice carries the seed of its own punishment, why not accept the fact that a good choice yields desirable fruit?
— Gary Ryan Blair



Thirty Miles

Tuesday, October 16th, 2007

If you travel ten miles left when you should have gone ten miles right, you’ve made a thirty-mile mistake:  the ten miles you went in the wrong direction, the ten miles you have to go back to get to where you started from, and then the ten miles you have to go to get to [...]



Challenge Everything

Wednesday, October 10th, 2007

Just because you have believed something for a long time or have convinced yourself that you just “are” a certain way doesn’t even almost make it true.  You have to be willing to challenge virtually every single thing you have ever believed about yourself. …Remember:  A lie unchallenged becomes the truth.
— Phil McGraw, Ph.D., Self [...]



Floodgates

Wednesday, September 12th, 2007

You must know that in any moment a decision you make can change the course of your life forever: the very next person you stand behind in line or sit next to on an airplane, the very next phone call you make or receive, the very next movie you see or book you read or [...]



Learn and Move On

Friday, August 24th, 2007

Life pushes us all around.  Some give up.  Others fight.  A few learn the lesson and move on.  They welcome life pushing them around.  To these few people, it means they need and want to learn something.  They learn and move on.
— Robert Kiyosaki, Rich Dad, Poor Dad



Forget About Luck

Friday, August 10th, 2007

I don’t believe in luck and I don’t believe in randomness in life.  I believe that what works in your life works because you make it work.  I believe that things work in your life because you choose the right attitude and behavior to generate the right results.  Only by studying those successful situations can [...]